Positive Parenting and Children

Families affected by HIV can face challenges and problems which seem insurmountable. Parents' feelings of loss, guilt and anxiety about their children's futures, combine with their fears about the stigma and prejudice that may occur if others find out.

Many of the families PPC works with are also affected by poor housing, poverty, racism and isolation. Some have fled war and persecution in their own country, and seen relatives and friends tortured and killed. It's no wonder that many of these families struggle to cope on day-to-day basis, often wary of approaching statutory bodies for help.

What these families need is someone to support them within their own homes, who understands the affects of HIV and AIDS on their lives, and who can help them to focus on the needs of their children-so that the cycle of deprivation and isolation can be broken.

PPC is the UK's longest running charity for children and families with HIV. Each year we support over 150 families in London through Home Visits, Groups and other activities.

David's Story

David lives in a cramped one room flat in South London with Paula, his mother. She is pregnant, alone and has HIV. He is four years old, confident and outgoing. However he suffers from boredom and is aware that Mum is not well. A Family Support Worker from PPC visits regularly and takes him out to the park, the library or swimming whilst Paula gets some rest. A PPC Practice Manager is supporting Paula who has mental health problems, to develop her parenting skills and attend ante natal appointments at the Hospital that referred the family to PPC. The Practice Manager has also helped Paula to find a place for David at a nearby pre-school where he is making new friends.